Taking Control Gave Me the Strength That I Needed

When the third hint of the month fell into my lap that led me to believe my husband was cheating, I wondered how I allowed myself to get into such a troublesome relationship. I finally realized that I needed to take charge and do something about it. He had been spending a lot of time online, and I looked into how to hack an Instagram account to see if that would be some help. I turned out to be a tremendous help. I got the answer that I wanted by using the information that I found, and then I found the strength to stand tall and get out of the relationship permanently.

It may sound like I am an incredibly strong person who was able to get out with no trouble, but it really wasn’t like that at all. I had been in my marriage for 15 years, and over time, I changed a lot because of how bad the relationship was. I had made the mistake of trying to hang on for dear life because I wanted things to work. But my husband was determined to run his life into the ground and didn’t care how it affected me as a fellow human being. I finally realized that he just couldn’t see it, and I was done trying.

The day that I was finally able to see what was going on with his online photo account was the day that I found the strength to move on. There were so many private messages in it between him and another woman he had met through the site. Prior to this, I had long suspected that he had cheated on me at least 4 times, but I was never able to get proof. Now I had proof, and it was very empowering.